One aspect of parenting that has been really difficult is feeling the lack of much personal time. I don’t mean that to sound selfish, but we all need time for some self-fulfillment … even learning to take our own shower everyday with kidlets crawling around. I’m still working on that one! Taking the time to do something I love actually helps me to be a more energized and patient parent. Of course our husband and kids are our #1 and should be. But we need to remember that we become a more beautiful and interesting wife and mother as we have tons of personal growth.
You can also involve your children sometimes in the things you love. I have learned to totally enjoy politics and enjoy watching the Republican debates. So, I bought some cheep blue and red paint, white poster board, and some sticker stars. We had an “American Day” where Brayden painted a flag putting on all 50 stickers and we even spray painted our hairs red and blue in preparation for the debate! I got to have my moment of intellectual stimulation (amongst the chasing and cries of course) while Brayden got to learn a little about our country. Whatever you love, find someway to do it and involve your kids when you can!
What fun to see you again. You and your family are beautiful! Can I say that again? You and your family are beautiful! Thank you for inviting me to peek in on your life.
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